Moon phase and astrology compatibility explained

According to recent information moon phase trend TikTok lets you determine if you and your partner are MFEOs if your birth month forms a “full” full moon.

Astrologers say that’s not all. ‘This is not really valid,’ said astrologer and author Lisa Stardust(opens in new tab),Author love deck(opens in new tab) of card. “It has to do with the moon sign and the chart as a whole. It’s not. [as] It’s as simple as the phases of the moon. “

‘I’m not sure I agree with that TikTok trend,’ astrologer agreed Alice Bell(opens in new tab)future author trust the timing(opens in new tab)a book on relational astrology.

We asked experts to analyze the symbolism of the moon phases and what really determines moon compatibility.

What does moonphase mean?

“As the moon grows from new to full, it brings us enlightenment and growth,” said Stardust. “Moon phases help us evolve as people and understand our individual and collective needs.”

Additionally, cultural and symbolic associations have developed over time in terms of how the moon influences sexual behavior, according to psychologists, tarot card readers, and astrologers. Matthias Dettmann(opens in new tab)According to Dettmann, here’s what the moon phases mean in general and for sex and relationships:

New moon: “This is a time for new beginnings, new starts, and setting intentions. It’s time to sow seeds and plan for the future.” is often associated with the beginning of

Wax crescent: “This stage is associated with growth, expansion, and intentional action set during the New Moon.” When it comes to relationships, now is a good time to focus on personal growth and personal development. is.

Q1: “This represents a time of challenge and decision-making. It’s time to take action and overcome possible obstacles.” So make decisions regarding your sex life and connections during the first quarter month. .

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Gibbs wax: “This stage is about refinement, focus, and attention to detail. It’s a time to fine-tune your plans and make adjustments as needed.” The focus now is on sexual confidence and positivity.

full moon: “This is a time of completion, manifestation and illumination. It’s a time to celebrate achievements and release what no longer serves you.” Around the time of the full moon you may experience heightened energy, heightened emotions and heightened sexual desires. .

Weakening Gibbs: “This is about gratitude, reflection, and preparation for release. A time to be grateful for what has been accomplished and prepare for what is to come.” This is a good opportunity to think about desires.

Third quarter: “This stage represents a time of release, letting go, and surrendering. Let go of your beliefs!

Waning Crescent Moon: “This phase is associated with rest, renewal, and introspection. It’s a time to reflect on past lunar cycles and prepare for the next.” Focus on self-care (and perhaps self-love, too).

Moon Compatibility in Astrology

A pattern of long-term couples Bell often notices is that one is born near the new moon (when the moon is invisible to the naked eye) and the other near the full moon.when you see secondary progression(opens in new tab) — a predictive astrological method of “progressing” one’s natal chart — having that pattern is great, Bell said. That is, they are in a quieter, more introspective period, while the other partner is in an ongoing Full Moon phase, symbolizing a time to be more public and outward-looking. The current period of their life balances each other.

“From an astrological point of view, the phase of the moon when someone was born can also be important in determining that person’s emotional disposition and inner world,” Dettman said. Birth month phases can also provide insight into someone’s emotional needs and patterns.

As both Bell and Stardust argue, your and your partner’s Moon signs and elements (Water, Fire, Air, and Earth) are also important. “If you and your partner have the same Moon sign or the same elemental Moon sign (for example, if you both have Aquarius Moons), it is easier for you to understand each other’s emotions and intuit what each other is feeling. It’s easy to understand,” Bell said. By understanding each other’s habits, living together will become more natural.

Bells often see couples whose Moons are in opposite signs to each other (meaning opposites on the natal chart wheel). So one partner has the Moon in Cancer and the other has the Moon in Capricorn. “They subconsciously seem to be looking for qualities in the other person that they feel are lacking in them,” she explained.

Then there’s the arrangement of couple moon homes. There are 12 houses in everyone’s natal chart, each representing a different aspect of your life and the people around you. House placement is important, says Bell, but the Moon doesn’t have to be in the same house as your partner.

“For example, if your Moon is in the 12th house, you may be naturally attracted to those who have other planets (not necessarily the Moon) in the 12th house of your chart,” Bell said. .

Another thing to consider is your synastry chart house overlay (your and your partner’s birth chart combination to determine compatibility). Bells indicate that one partner’s Moon is in his 1st, 4th, 7th, or 10th house in the other’s chart, or the Ascendant (aka Rising sign), Descendant (opposite of Ascendant), Make sure you are close to critical angles such as Midheaven. (the highest point on the chart), and Imum Coeli (opposite Midhaven).

“When someone’s Moon activates these parts of their chart, Moon-related themes such as emotions, family life, and intimacy may become more prominent in their relationships, and they may feel more comfortable sharing their feelings with each other. I can’t.

For example, the 4th house symbolizes home and family. When your partner’s Moon is in the 4th house, or vice versa, moving into that sign (aka a planet moving into that sign) will bring about major changes in both houses and families at the same time. And the deepest feelings are associated with both the 4th House and the Moon,” she added.

Ultimately, know that there is much more to compatibility than moon phases. Also, don’t use TikTok to determine if you and Boo are soulmates.